This is a question that puzzles all of us, doesn’t it? I was recently listening to “The Secret” by Earl Nightingale. (1) He points out that the vast majority of men do not, ultimately, lead happy and contented lives. He poses the question as to why this is so. We are left with the impression that we must associate success with material wealth.
Continue reading Happiness: what does it mean to be truly happy?Fear
As individuals, what are we afraid of — probably everything? We are afraid of aging. We are afraid of having no relationships — intimate or otherwise. We are afraid of not being financially successful, and we are afraid to die. The list goes on and on. Sometimes, I am sure, we are so afraid of the entirety of existence that the whole concept becomes boring and tedious. It is at this point that we come to the realization of who is creating this fear. It is the self who creates my fear — me!
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Don’t you find the experience profound when you enter a building that is silent — a church, a mosque, a synagogue, or even a museum? This quiet summons something in the inner recesses of our being, doesn’t it? I believe that in this hushed environment lies the answers to the three fundamental questions of life: “Who am I?” “What is my mission?” and “Where will I go when I leave this mortal plane — when I die?”
Continue reading QuietLoneliness as knowledge
I find long-distance travel to be an extremely interesting phenomenon. When we read tales of the past, we of often shocked and yet enamored with just how long a journey used to take. When Magellan’s expedition first traversed the globe, it took an almost indescribable amount of time, from 1519 to 1522 – three years — and it cost Magellan his life and the lives of most of his crew.
Continue reading Loneliness as knowledgeDo you have color in your life?
Most colorful, interesting people have many positive qualities; you’ll find they usually have the following in common: They are curious; they love to discover new ideas, places, people, and interests. They are expressive; they’re not scared to speak their minds and express themselves well. They take initiative; they don’t sit around waiting for permission to do what they want to do, and they like to try new things. (1)
Continue reading Do you have color in your life?Not every day is a good day
You awaken poorly: another day, dull and confused. It is raining outside — bleak and wet. The day feels portentous. You are suddenly beset with the existential questions of life: how do I find the path that is rumored to be in front of me – how do I uncover my life mission?
Continue reading Not every day is a good dayWhat are you afraid of?
Am I an empiricist: am I faced with knowing the world only through my senses and my experiences, is nothing innate? (1) These are questions that constantly “buzz around” in my mind, juxtaposed with, Do I then have significance: will the world I create through my actions have consequences? Will I die without my mission fulfilled? (2) Fear is an emotion that seemingly comes to us far more easily than the feeling of love – though love, when experienced, is tremendously more powerful. I have contact with many, many people on a weekly basis. More than a few, because they are young, share their negative thoughts about the world at large – how dangerous and evil it is. I inquire as to where this view comes from.
Continue reading What are you afraid of?Why should I believe?
Why should I believe in anything, really? This is such a cynical time that just posing this question creates conflict. But, it is not something that can be easily dismissed, for obfuscation only leads to more confusion later in life. This is a fundamental query that all thoughtful people are subjected to. We are all exposed to the cruelty of existence. How can I make sense of the chaos?
Continue reading Why should I believe?The art of conversation
What is the art of conversation? It is the ability to express a thought or idea and to have the recipient of that proposition understand my fundamental meaning. It is tied to the very intellectual foundation of our civilization. If we cannot communicate effectively, we will always be spiritually and philosophically isolated.
Continue reading The art of conversationHow do you heal a broken heart?
A visit to the more humble parts of any North American city reveals countless bodies of all shapes and sizes sitting or lying listlessly in the morning sun or shuffling aimlessly from one perch to another. You are left with an overwhelming sense of pain and suffering. Yes, it is true that many are mentally ill and others are addled by alcohol and drugs, but all are suffering from some form of broken spirit — some type of great distress. (1)
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