Podcast Episode 124: Look for the good in an allegedly negative world and you will find it. Positive events will, of course, happen along with pernicious occurrences. That said: you can frame reality in the way you want. Go for the most powerful and enduring attitude. You know what it is.

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The freedom of self-control

It was a distressing epoch. Then, a curious sense of peace came over me. Normally, I would have been quite perplexed for the situation called for a more anxious time. Why did I feel so calm? Recently, it finally “dawned on me” that I could truly be in command of my reality, my world. I had taken control of my body and literally willed it to calm down. I am sure you have been here. This is easy to say, but trying to put into practice.

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Podcast Episode 123: I must be a crusader of me. If I adopt the model of determination, courage, and resilience, I will overcome the many trials and tribulations in life — or at least fight those demons to a standstill.

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Is a purposeful life really possible?

It is easy as an old man to sit back and pontificate about life, work, and freedom. You find yourself very promptly marginalized because the question is succinctly posed: “At almost seventy, what can you possibly know about my life at twenty or twenty-five?” The truth is straightforward: “Nothing!” One of the harshest realizations in life is that you are forced to follow Socrates’ dictum – to paraphrase: “I know that I know nothing!”

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Failure and forgiveness: Can we truly forgive?

We live in a world that lauds action but seems unwilling to truly accept its consequences. “Action and inaction are both actions” is an unacceptable mantra in the post-Millennial age. (1) Are we prepared to be responsible, accept failure in ourselves and others, and then forgive or ask for forgiveness? “You are the people of God; He loved you and chose you for His own. So then, you must clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Be tolerant with one another and forgive one another whenever any of you has a complaint against someone else. You must forgive one another just as the Lord has forgiven you.” (2)

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Miracles: Do you believe in them?

We are, for the most part, suffering beings aren’t we? At grade school and then at gymnasium, we imagine that we are caught in some hellish reality from which there is little perceptual escape: the pre-ordained plan must be pursued – study and tests. An education filled with endless pressure and psychological indignities is followed by even more stress at university. Nonetheless, all of my suffering will be mitigated by my disembarkation at “the port of life”– nirvana awaits.

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The voyage

The iconic traveler traverses life’s path, aspiring to arrive at his destination. Along the way, he (1) encounters many frustrations and challenges. Why does the traveler not stop and discontinue his journey? Why not make a placid life and forget that ambition, that need? Simply put: he can’t — something drives him on. But there are many days that he himself does not know why he pushes on. Some force, some hidden resolve, resides in his breast and whips him forward. That power is the belief that, in all men, there is a mission: an intrinsic obligation comprised of something mystical and magical that must be completed before the end. What does that energy want? What is the traveler to uncover? Initially, he cannot fully comprehend his calling, but much like the layers of an onion, each time a piece is peeled away, the underlying flesh is whiter and clearer – an understanding develops.

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